Insignificance

Remember the movie the Holiday? At one point, one of the characters talks about how it feels to be as small and insignificant as possible. How? When you realize that you haven't moved on from the person like you thought you had. When you hear, from him, that he, just a couple months later, has already moved on. After hearing so many people who have been through this say that it takes at least a year...it's like the slap in the face. He already has feelings for someone else, which of course, is like the icing on the most sour cake on the planet.

But wait a minute...

Didn't you break up with him in the first place? God willing, you were able to handle it in a fashion that allowed him to do just that; think that there was no hope for the future and to move on as quickly as possible.

It's amazing how much it hurts, especially when movie clips play in your head of all of the times you had together and how happy you were.

But wait another minute...

Maybe God is granting you the same favor? Clearly, he has moved on. You have no idea if there's anything to hope for in the future with him because only God knows that. And if you two will be together, you will.

So pull yourself together, mend that heart of yours, and start living your life without worrying about what's going to happen in the future.

Today, live the life that God gave you today and don't think about tomorrow until tomorrow comes.